Doctor DILF: Extra Length: Episode 1.4: Sex & Dating
Doctor DILF: Extra Length 1.4
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Sex & Dating
Gay men chat about our health and the world we live in - uncensored and extra length!
Why you should listen to this episode…
In our overcrowded and noisy media, the voices of older gay and bisexual men often get lost. Well, no longer. Every episode of Doctor DILF: Extra Length features three elder gays talking about their own experiences of life and the topic of the week. It’s candid, honest, and very, very human. Doctor DILF: Extra Length serves as a counterpoint to expert advice through featuring the experts by experience - older gay and bisexual men themselves. By listening to both Doctor DILF and Doctor DILF: Extra Length, it is hoped that the listeners will gain many perspectives on the subject of the week, enabling them to make up their own minds, and hopefully, to provide motivation and inspiration. Warm and funny, Doctor DILF: Extra Length is your companion on a run, in the gym, or to your nice cup of tea and a sponge finger.
In this episode, Simon, James, and John have a revealing and no-holds-barred discussion on sex and dating. The boys reminisce about dodgy lonely hearts adverts in the back of the paper, internet cafes in the dead of night, and the current dating apps. Stories of strange one-night-stands and sauna visits are recounted, and they ponder over dating app etiquette and behaviours. Finally, the lads wonder if there’s pressure to have sex on the gay scene, if sex changes with age, their early encounters with kink, and the delights of Gran Canaria dark rooms.
Trigger Warning: This podcast contains descriptions of sexual activity. All the good stuff.
Episode Summary
What is the dating app equivalent of doom scrolling? What were the perils of lonely hearts adverts and internet cafes in the wee small hours? Does sex change as you get older? Is there too much pressure to have sex on the gay scene? And why doesn’t sex come with feedback sheets?
Simon, James, and John spill the tea about sex, from dodgy one-night-stands to sexual mishaps. You can join in the conversation using the #DoctorDILF hashtag!
Subjects Covered
Preferred methods of meeting sexual partners, dating app etiquette and people who don’t read profiles, strange one-night-stands, Only Fans, Is there pressure to have sex?, letting the side down, PrEP, condoms, suspicious stains, saunas and dark rooms, sexual mishaps.
The Panellists
Simon is a Doctor of Public Health with a special interest in LGBTQ+ healthy ageing. You can find him at BlueSky, Instagram, and LinkedIn
James is a diversity expert working in the corporate sector. You can find him on BlueSky and Instagram
John treads the boards as an actor. You can find him on Spotlight, BlueSky, and on Instagram
Helpful Links
Helpful links to supportive organisations are given at the end of the programme and can be found here
