Leeds Pride 2026
What really struck me was the disconnect between Pride and the world of the media. All we ever hear about now are the bad things, division being created artificially to drive clicks and to sell copy, driven by binary algorithms. I didn’t see any billionaires or millionaires there in person, espousing their points of view. I didn’t see any representation of the far right, and the only religious sign I saw was pro-LGBTQ+. And you know why? Because they’re cowards. These people rarely show up in person because they like to stick to the shadows where it’s safe, hiding behind their keyboards and phones. Or in extreme cases, behind a weapon.
A large crowd wave their arms during a La Voix gig in Leeds gay village. Leeds skyline in the background.
Your intrepid podcaster went to Leeds Pride 2026 on Sunday.
It’s been years since I last attended this particular Pride event. However, for me, it broke new ground this year because I was part of the march, which was something I hadn’t done before. As a first-timer, I found the carnival atmosphere to be infectious and it was hard not to bob along to the vuvuzelas and the music.
As I marched along with my crowd, I found the focus of attention to be an interesting one. People were waving their flags and whistling on the side lines, and I asked myself what I had done to deserve this cheering and joyous reaction? I know I am a podcaster on LGBTQ+ matters, but I am not really the kind of guy to whom the spotlight comes naturally. I’m more of a behind-the-scenes hard worker by nature.
Yet, I reminded myself of two things: Pride marches are a peaceful protest; and the focus is not on one single individual, but all of us as a community. It is needed now more than ever as we come under attack from groups with nefarious aims. A drag queen on one of the stages reiterated this before she performed I Am What I Am as the sun streamed through the branches of the trees. Goosebumps.
This sentiment was also reflected in the sheer variety of people who attended in their multitudes - twinks, pups, furries, daddies and DILFs, leather guys, lesbians, drag queens, non-binary people, and everyone else in-between. It was good to see goths there too. I remember in my youth going to Le Phono in Leeds, the world’s first dedicated goth club, so it was good to see goths were still unalive and unwell, as it were. More to the point, the sheer number of trans flags was heart-warming to see.
Leeds Pride is a lot better organised now than way back in the day when I last attended the event. Now, the gay village is cordoned off with good security and the bars are all well-organised, each showcasing their particular niche with their mini stages and their own acts. There was even a contactless beer machine, dispensing lager and wine at the touch of a button. Way back in the day, I was turned away from a Leeds bar for being too old (I won’t say which one), but there was none of that here - you could take your plastic cup of booze anywhere and all ages and shapes and sizes jostled along together. Never knowingly passing a toilet without using it, the bathroom availability was excellent. I had expected long queues, but the organisation of the event meant that everyone kept moving, even if it was a squeeze at times with the sheer volume of people. And of course, La Voix slayed on the main stage.
What really struck me was the disconnect between Pride and the world of the media. All we ever hear about now are the bad things, division being created artificially to drive clicks and to sell copy, driven by binary algorithms. I didn’t see any billionaires or millionaires there in person, espousing their points of view. I didn’t see any representation of the far right, and the only religious sign I saw was pro-LGBTQ+. And you know why? Because they’re cowards. These people rarely show up in person because they like to stick to the shadows where it’s safe, hiding behind their keyboards and phones. Or in extreme cases, behind a weapon.
There is a reason for this. The LGBTQ+ community is stronger when we act together. En masse, we are amazing. When we get together in person, we get things done. Pride has its roots in the Stonewall riots, and since then, it has become an adaptable protest evolving with the needs of the times. Compare your local Pride event with the recent far right riots, and you will see that they are worlds apart. No looting or violence here, and the Police presence was benign and watchful rather than actively expecting trouble.
We truly are better together in person, and love will most definitely win.
Doctor DILF podcast launches for Pride Month!
Doctor DILF and Doctor DILF: Extra Length, the health podcasts for older gay and bisexual men launch on Podbean and Apple Podcasts for Pride Month 2026!
After months of hard work, talking with an array of experts, chatting with mates, scheduling, planning, and learning new skills, Doctor DILF: the health podcast for older gay and bisexual men is finally here! Phew! And it’s only now I’ve reached the finish line, do I realise it’s actually the start of a whole new chapter…!
I’m Dr. Simon Fox, a doctor of public health, and a specialist in LGBTQ+ healthy aging. What seems like a lifetime ago now, I had the idea of converting my doctorate into a podcast, bringing public health in an accessible form to the people who I have spent years studying, partying with, and laughing with… gay and bisexual men.
Doctor DILF and Doctor DILF: Extra Length, the health podcasts for older gay and bisexual men launch on Podbean and Apple Podcasts for Pride Month 2026!
After months of hard work, talking with an array of experts, chatting with mates, scheduling, planning, and learning new skills, Doctor DILF: the health podcast for older gay and bisexual men is finally here! Phew! And it’s only now I’ve reached the finish line, do I realise it’s actually the start of a whole new chapter…!
I’m Dr. Simon Fox, a doctor of public health, and a specialist in LGBTQ+ healthy aging. What seems like a lifetime ago now, I had the idea of converting my doctorate into a podcast, bringing public health in an accessible form to the people who I have spent years studying, partying with, and laughing with… gay and bisexual men.
Well, I say gay and bisexual men… Doctor DILF is for anyone who identifies as a man. In this increasingly strange world of ours, it’s important to be as inclusive, warm, and friendly as possible. Even if you don’t identify as a man - welcome aboard anyway! The more the merrier!
Every week for the next few weeks, Doctor DILF will bring you experts to strip back the myths and misinformation of our health and to bring out the facts that matter to us. These aren’t stodgy overly-long interviews. They’re friendly, relaxed and fun chats, just long enough for your run or workout or lunch break. That’s what Doctor DILF is designed to be - hearing voices and advice tailored for your ears and your life.
Doctor DILF also has a brother podcast - Doctor DILF: Extra Length! Each episode, a regular panel of three older gay men chew the fat about the topic of the week. It’s candid, revealing, witty, and very often NSFW. Doctor DILF: Extra Length came about through having identified the need for older gay male voices as a counterpoint to the experts. Think of him as the spicy sibling of the pair, spilling the tea and having a laugh. The idea behind this is to provide a sort of triangulation for you, the listeners, creating a three-way conversation between the experts, the panellists and you, joining in the conversation using the #DoctorDILF hashtag on social media. All I ask is that you respect one another. We won’t all agree and that’s OK too.
That’s not to say that it’s all a laugh. The podcasts do have content and food for thought that may be, at times, challenging. That’s because life is often challenging, as we all damn well know. I’m not going to treat you all like idiots by glossing over the difficult bits because you’re intelligent human beings who deserve better. We all deserve better. However, I do provide trigger warnings wherever possible, so keep an eye out for them on the show notes and an ear out for them in the episodes themselves. I also regularly signpost you to organisations who may be able to help if you’re having a hard time.
Doctor DILF has evolved naturally, and will continue to evolve. This website will continue to evolve over time too. I didn’t get everything done I wanted to get done, but that’s life. Bear with me. Likewise bear with me regarding techie things - I’m learning fast!
Doctor DILF will evolve through you. Doctor DILF is about you, for you, by you. If you think of a subject you want covered, contact me via this website or on social media. Again, please be kind and respectful. You can find the podcast on BlueSky under @DoctorDILF.
I’d like to take this opportunity to say a huge thank you to all the contributors, all the well-wishers, everyone who suggested things, and all those who just kept me going. The incredible response convinced me of the need for this podcast and keeps me going. I have great plans for Doctor DILF and I’m already formulating ideas for Series 2!
Lastly, have a safe and very wonderful Pride Month. We are all better sticking together, now more so than ever. Share the love!
As I say every episode, be good to each other and just keep talking.
With love,
Simon x

